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I believe children are what create love..
Honestly, I don’t think “real love” exist. What I think love actually is, is two people who have learned to love themselves enough to be able to tolerate the company and affection of another adult being.. Or another case is, love that has stemmed from a genuine friendship where two people who never took things passed “just being friends” (yeah, that really does exist) overtime, allowed for the feeling of love to grow and their hearts had no choice but to create a sincere form of love.. Face it, as adults we’d honestly all be comfortable with fucking everyone we wanted to fuck as long as it was socially exceptable.. (if you’re giving me the stale face right now, stop lying to yourself) Another example of “real love” is what directors and producers create on film. I say that because of their passion&love for the art of filmmaking. Much like mucians painters and other artist, their work has no choice but to exude love, or else it wouldn’t mean shit.. It’d just be another “so and so” or “what-the-fuck” type thing.. Artist (in this case filmmakers) use that love to outline the way people should think of love, or maybe the things you should do, or look for to create a feeling of love for yourself or between two people. On the contrary, do you notice there’s always a scene where the couple falls out for a few months or years, and there’s sort of that break up to make up, montage or juxtaposition and the couple either finds their way back to one another, moves on, or somebody dies depending on what type of movie it is. (Jason’s Lyric much lol) Let’s talk about married couples. When couples first get married most want to have kids right away right? In theory, I say it’s because neither of them knows how long it will be before they are just plain sick of each other. Kids serve as the— how do I say— “Insurance” or maybe even the warranty, in the case that a separated couple gets back together. (-__-fuckin Parent Trap) Let’s be real, when u break up with someone no matter what, you’re still gonna have some ties to them (again, don’t lie to yourself) children sort of serve as that excuse to remain cordial, or shit, for some of y’all, to still have something to argue about.. Cuz g, we all kno them couples who still be arguing years after they break up, mogs know they still have feelings and be tryna play fight under the “you ain’t gone do shit” or “I run this, u better act like you know” act.. Pride is what usually stops you from makin the same mistakes twice, unless of course it’s a rare situation where people actully DO change, but don’t bank on that.. Anyway, back to the real matter at hand, the kids!.. We’ve got to realize in this entire fiasco of “couple love” that “doesn’t exist” that the children are what’re most important. Their minds are young and impressionable but, in the midst of those facts they’re also a blessing. They help, and allow us to grow as people, together. Another theory I have is that children are smarter than adults. I tie that mainly into the reason they arent able to talk as infants, because they’d reveal to us all of life’s secrets, and what fun would life be without secrets right?!.. And plus the world would become wayyy too over populated due to you power hungry fucks out there who would only be having kids to rule the world in turn, turning something so beautiful into a “weapon of mass destruction” (bitch) anyway.. My advice to anyone reading this is honestly, love yourself first, above all. Get right within, make sure you have a dream and a passion and money because of course we can’t live without that.. Just have a savings on deck because you never know when or why you’ll need it. Also build a relationship with a higher power and let love find you, there’s no such thing as “looking for love” when you look for love, u find it in all the wrong places.. Do what you’re supposed to do in life, make sure it’s something that you love, and I assure “love” will find you… It’s just up to you to prove me wrong and really LOVE.. L.oving O.ne V.ery E.asily… It’s starts with you.
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